It is for you. It is about the woman in your life. Sooner than later, you may fall in love with a working woman and get married to her, but before doing that, you should know something about her.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are,who is earning almost as much as you do, one who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are!She has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements!
She has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you did for 20-25 years of her life.She has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family name! But she is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, and you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen ! She is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more! And yet she is never ever expected to complain L You want her to be a servant, a cook, a mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and she is learning just like you are as to what you want from her, and she is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you!
She has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities! Though she can drink and dance just as well as you can, she won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise !
She can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met; but she is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, but only if you just help and trust her!!! She just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding and love !
Yeah she is a woman! Be proud of her & make her proud too!!!
[One of the best e-mails I got.I thought I need to post it here.Thanks to him,who send this to me]